To say that Walls had an unusual childhood would be a massive understatement. She didn’t have any of the stability with a roof over her head or meals to eat that most children in the US take for granted, but she did have some amazing once-in-a-lifetime opportunities to do things that many of us will never do.
I’d like to say that this is due to that her parents rarely followed the rules (or, you know, laws) and gave her and her siblings even fewer to follow. She was a child of people who had the kind of wandering existence that I’ve known some to pine for, but it’s not all sunshine and rainbows.
In fact, it seems like it was hardly ever sunshine and rainbows. They’d have long stretches of okay times with fairly regular meals and then periods of near starvation where they had to go through the trash to eat. But their parents did have an odd splendor in the way they dealt with such an extreme level of poverty. They weren’t perfect, but Walls manages to tell the story in a way that never quite judges them. They were who they were and she seems to have accepted that, even when it embarrassed her.
There were a few stories I really loved, one of which I am totally keeping in my pocket just in case I’m ever at that point with my own family. There were also lots of points in the story where my heart broke for Walls and her siblings. Some people are well suited to “adulting” and others are not, her parents are just not those people. Their hearts appeared to be in the right places though. Or maybe it’s just the way Walls tells the story.
She tells the story as she encountered it, not inserting knowledge from later in life to situations, not guessing what may have been in their minds based on information she had down the road. She doesn’t seem to be protecting them either, never shying away from their less attractive traits.
The movie based on her life will be out soon (August 11) and I’m thinking about seeing it, though not in the theater. We don’t normally go to the theater for movies we can’t take the six year old to. After reading the book, I’m not 100% sure I want to see it, but the cast intrigues me. Naomi Watts and Woody Harrelson both have the ability to be heartbreakingly vulnerable about the worst parts of a person and I’m not sure how they’re going to portray it. It would be easy for any director with these actors to make it heart-warming or heart-wrenching. I’d be happy with a combination. The book left me with that Good Will Hunting feeling where they went for the heart but it left me with a good feeling overall. I hope the movie does that to.
Have you read the book? Are you planning on watching the movie?